oh man...........

and so, things were getting better, Tim and his wife Nellanne, offered to take me in and I graciously accepted............Nellanne was such an awesome woman, I really admired her........and one of the kindest women I've ever met; no judgement, just a very wise and kind woman who was so organized!!! and what a cook!  I wanted to learn from her and I really enjoyed talking with her.............about a week after i got back from Chico, she had a headache that just was not getting better.....Tim came home and took her to the e.r.......next thing you know they are flying her down to UCSF, she was already unconscious.............she had an aneurysm and it burst.............and that was it............one day she was here, laughing and talking.........and the next minute she was gone, forever..................I bawled my eyes out.........I only got to know her for about 3 or 4 months, but I was attatched.............she had even taken care of Persephone for me when i went to Chico........it was devastating to so many people on so many, many levels.............she was one of a kind...........